Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Goodbye Ralph


We have lost another one of our Painted Creek pets. Ralph came to live with us 3 years ago, along with his brother Rowdy. The people that had them, didn't want them anymore. So my OH and I took them in. They were very shy and did not like human contact. But when an animal lives here on this farm, they eventually realize that humans are good and we were able to tame them. Ralph actually became my OH's favorite goat. He was always the first one at the gate for a greeting.



Late last week, we noticed Ralph wasn't coming out to eat like everyone else. Goats love food, and they would be the first ones to the hay piles. He just stayed in the barn. We knew something wasn't quite right with him. He did eventually start to nibble on hay we put in the barn, but he still wouldn't come out. We thought he might have bloat. So we called a vet out. The vet came out Monday afternoon. His temperature was really low for a goat, the vet felt around his stomache, then felt his bladder. The vet said that Ralph's bladder was full, which means he hadn't gone pee in awhile. He said Ralph also had stones in his bladder. He said that there isn't much you can do with goats when they get these stones. They are very difficult to treat, and if you start the treatment process and they pull through, than they require a lifetime of special care. We were given two options. One option was to take Ralph to the vet clinic and have a catheter put in so he could relieve himself, which required special medicine to be given every day for two weeks, than once the treatment was done, there were no gaurantees that Ralph would recover, and that he would need to be on a special diet forever, that most likely would not prevent this from happening again. Option two was to euthanize him. The vet said that goats just don't do well with this kind of thing, and he gave Ralph a 50/50 chance of recovery. I felt like since the odds were not very good, that we should euthanize him and set him free of his misery and pain.



My OH wanted to give him a chance, so he told the vet he'd hook up the trailer and take him to the clinic. My OH took him and once they got him inside the clinic, my OH asked the vet to explain to him again what the treatment would be. Finally my OH came to the decision that he would not do the catheter and was going to have him euthanized. The vet said we could try one more thing, give him a pain shot, and a few hours later, give him another one. This might help him relax and be able to go to the bathroom. So my OH brought Ralph back home. We put him in the dog kennel where he just layed there. We went back out 4 hours later to give him another shot. He did not look good. Today he wasn't any better and he had liquid coming out of his mouth. We think his bladder could have opened up, like the vet said it could, and that is how it came out. My OH called the vet to have him come back and have him euthanized. My OH had to dig a hole and bury him. I am sure that was a very difficult thing for him to do.



Ralph's life might have started out a little rough, but at least we know we gave him a kind, loving home. One where he could just be a goat, hang out with his buddies and to not fear the human touch.



Ralph loved to climb up on the stumps in the pasture. When he shed out his winter coat, he looked like he was molting.



Ralph prefered to eat by himself, but occasionally he would share with a horse. He also had the funniest hair on his butt. It was really long and wavy.



You will be missed Ralph! RIP buddy!


49 comments:

Desert Rose said...

So sorry to hear of your loss! Sound like you did about as much as you could for Ralph...I'm sure he knows he was loved!

KD said...

Goodbye Ralph! Glad he had such a good home with y'all.

Unknown said...

So sorry to hear about Ralph.
Have you ever heard about male castrated goats and eating alfalfa hay? It can cause bladder stones it's dangerous. Might be worth looking into for your other goaties.

Fantastyk Voyager said...

Awww, so sorry! It's hard to say good-bye, isn't it?
He was very unique with those hairy leggings and horns. He had a great life with you, I'm sure.

John and Regina Zdravich said...

I am so sorry to hear you lost Ralph. He looks like such a sweet goat -- LaMancha, right?? I know you did the right thing....I believe he also knows he was loved and well cared for. Bless his little soul.....

Paint Girl said...

Sydney~ We don't feed our goats alfafa hay. They get grass hay only with goat grain.
The vet did mention about male goats and bladder stones, he said that this year has been a really bad year for goats getting bladder stones, he didn't know why.

Reddunappy said...

So sorry to hear about Ralph.
We lost my daughters pet goat, a black Pygmy a few years back to this urinary calculie, he was wethered at 6-8 weeks old. It is said if you wait until maturity at 6-8 months old to castrate them it helps, because the urinary tract is more developed. And dont feed wethers concentrate grain or alfalfa.
Goats are so fun, and funny characters, ours was named Aurther.

R I P Ralphy, and cross that Rainbow bridge.

Laughing Orca Ranch said...

So sorry, my friend. Poor Ralph. He looked like he was a la mancha mixed with an angora. Aww, Ralph was a funny, cute fella and he looked like he enjoyed a great life with you guys. It's always difficult to say good bye, though.

(((HUGS)))
~Lisa

Unknown said...

What a wonderful character! Glad he enjoyed the last part of his life and had a gentle parting.

Carroll Farm said...

So Sorry. But, he is happy. :)

Sherry Sikstrom said...

Sorry for your loss, It must have been a difficult time . But you guys made the right choice for Ralf ,and tha is the kindest thing to do . Glad that he had a loving home with you

The Wildwood said...

I am welling up tears for you and it has been a time of loss this past few months for you two. Pets teach us so much about ourselves. It is hard to let go. Sympathy to you both

Linda said...

I had two of my absolute favorite goats die of urinary calculi a few years ago. They were my bottle fed babies, and I could not have been any closer to them had they been human. (Mistake).

I took them to the vet who did the whole treatment and they died at the vet clinic.

I soon after went to find new goats--hoping to fill the loss--which you can never really do--and found a male and a female--brother and sister babies.

**Sidenote: I had always fed my goats grass hay--no alfalfa--but they were castrated very young--a mistake for the urinary tract development--but they develop other issues if you don't.

So, the new boy, Scottie, ends up getting urinary calculi--but now I had studied and studied the issue and went out and bought some Ammonium Chloride and added it to his water.

Voila. No more stones. It dissolved them immediately. After a couple of days he was as good as gold and when I see him struggle to pee--more AC--but it's rare now--very rare. And, btw, now I feed him alfalfa and grass.

I wish I had known how powerful Ammonium Chloride was--maybe I could have saved my special goats. :( As it is, I don't think I'll EVER get as close to an animal again.

Sorry for your loss--I understand it all to well.

Linda said...

I don't want to inundate you with information during an already hard time, but I wanted to add, just in case someone with a similar issue reads this--urinary calculi is also a big, big problem for neutered male cats.

BrownEyed Cowgirl said...

Oh I feel for you guys, you have had your fair share of sadness mixed with all the joy. I'm so sorry about Ralph. The thing is, we do the best we can for the animals in our care and sometimes that means making incredibly difficult decisions.

RIP Ralph...you were very lucky the last few years of your life!

Groomer Angie said...

Oh I'm so sorry, I know the pain of losing one, but we all know that we have to do the right thing for them and you have done just that for Ralph, he is not in pain anymore & enjoying a romp at the Bridge. My thoughts are with you guys.

Dusty Devoe said...

Oh, I am so sad you lost Ralph. It never is easy is it. He sure was a handsome thing. Know is is now longer in pain. He knew he was loved. HUGS!

Cousin B said...

Ralph was a cutie...He was blessed to have spent his time with you guys!

Pony Girl said...

I'm sorry to hear about Ralph, I know it was a tough decision all around, but the right one as he was in pain. I was always a bit afraid of Ralph's horns. But he was a cutie and i loved his curly leg hair. I guess Rowdy is around with his big horns to still scare me! :) Great pictures of Ralph in this post! Love the last one. Sniff..... :(

p.s. follow this link to my story about My Boy and Ralph roping each other....they were so cute here, it might make you smile! :) http://ponygirlridesagain.blogspot.com/2008/12/ropin-time.html

cdncowgirl said...

Awww, I'm so sorry for your loss. Try to take some comfort in knowing you and your OH were strong enough to put your wants aside and do what was best for Ralph. Also in knowing that his last few years were probably the happiest of his life.

((hugs))

Tara said...

Sorry to hear about your Ralphie. It's so hard to lose any animal, even if you know they are suffering. It has surely been a year of changes at the PC farm. Some good and some bad. Hopefully more good is to come in the future!

Chelsi said...

Awww, good bye Ralph. You were one luck goat to have such wonderful parents!

Paint Girl- so sorry you have to endure a loss like this right now. Give your OH a hug for me...something about a big strong man having a soft spot for an animal that is just so sweet.

juliette said...

Paint Girl - I am so sorry about your loss. What a sweet boy Ralph was and he was lucky to have you take good care of him. A few years ago I was riding at a barn that has a pet goat named Eddie. He was such a funny goat. I often would pick stalls for the owners and Eddie would help me with all my "chores". He was a trip. One day I arrived and Eddie had been euthanized because of the very same ailment. I was a mess. I couldn't believe he was gone that quick. It was very sad. I will be thinking good thoughts for you and your OH.

Leah Fry said...

Sorry for the loss of poor Ralph. It's never easy to say goodbye.

FlyingHorse2 said...

RIP Ralph. Bless you for having been Ralph's solace in his final years.

Mrs. Mom said...

Our thoughts are with you guys. I'd seen several withered boys over the years via working at the vets office. Always a very sad time, as we were all goatie fans.

We sure will miss hearing about his adventures out there at Painted Creek.

Know what? A critter comes into your life out there, and they are some lucky to be with you guys ;)

Andrea said...

I am so sorry about Ralph, he did look like such a sweetie. I am with Pony Girl, those horns make me nervous! But I am sure it was all show. He was a handsome man with his hairy legs! Very fancy!!

I have to watch our Joe goat for the same reason. You can put some powder stuff in their water so they don't get those stones. Joe's feed has it in it. Not all goat feed has it. But those stones make me nervous. It's such a sad and painful thing for them. I am so sorry. Big (((HUGS))) to you and your OH.

Ralph was a lucky boy to live the rest of his life with you guys!

~*~Lysh~*~ said...

I am very sorry for your loss. Ralph was a very handsome goat and was lucky to have found such a loving family to care for him as much as you guys did.

Shelly's Stuff said...

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I commend you for making the decision that was best for Ralph. Too often people make the decision to keep their pets alive because it makes the owner feel better, and not necessarily the pet. Godspeed, Ralph.

Christina said...

Sorry to hear about Ralph. Goats are so wonderful they have such neat personalities.

Esther Garvi said...

So sorry to hear! What a sweet goat. He will be missed!

baystatebrumby said...

Oh I hope Ralph did not suffer too much! You were the best home he ever had! I bet he had the best life ever with you and your OH!
I need to stop reading blogs at work. I always end up crying over something I read, and then go to meetings looking exhausted and puffy eyed!

Nuzzling Muzzles said...

Awwww. So sorry about Ralph's condition and having to make that decision. I'm sure he'll be missed.

Mama H said...

My heart goes out to you! Weighing lengthy treatment against euth is always a tough decision, and sometimes we humans think about ourselves and not the animal. I'm proud you guys gave it a shot, but also realized when Ralph was suffering worse. You gave him a good and loving home, more than a lot of people can do.

Sandra said...

i am so sorry. Your photos of Ralph really showed who he was. I know you will miss him.

Flat Creek Farm said...

My heart goes out to you! That Ralph ~ what a cutie pie. Goodbyes to dear old friends are always hard. Bless you for giving him a wonderful home and life. -Tammy

Jessica said...

I'm very sorry Paint Girl. Ralph seemed like a great little goat...and what a character. You guys certainly made the right decision for him and he's peaceful now.

Gail said...

There are no words that help in times like these, just know I am thinking of you and sorry for your loss.

jane augenstein said...

So sorry about Ralph, that brought tears to my eyes! We used to have goats years ago and as silly as they were when one died it was heart breaking. We loved them all just like you all loved Ralph and all your other critters on your farm. But you did give him a wonderful home and he was loved very much.
hugs....
Jane

LuLo Designs/Blue Eyed Tango said...

The last photo is just priceless of Ralph...it's so sad to lose any animal....I don't care how far removed they seem to be at the time. Tears for you at another loss.
Do you train horses now? I must have missed your post on this new adventure!

The Wades said...

Oh, poor Ralph! Sorry for another loss. Your animals are so lucky to have you.

Dream Valley Ranch said...

Oh I am so sorry for your loss...such a tough few months for you and your OH...

Sending lots of comforting hugs to you both. Ralph was a lucky boy to have two such loving people in his life.

Thinking of you,
Sue

Maery Rose said...

Sorry for yours and OH's loss. It sounds like Ralph had a good life with you. Sending comforting thoughts your way.

Tracey said...

So sorry, Paint. Ralph looks like he was a real sweetie and I'm sure his antics will be greatly missed.

I had a ram with urinary calculi a few years ago. He went trotting out across the pasture one morning then came buckling down to his knees in pain. Called the vet and she snipped off the very end of his penis...yeeowch!...but the stones came out and he peed a good long healthy stream.

Kritter Keeper at Farm Tails said...

i really am sorry about your baby ralph! he was so beautiful! kudos to linda for sharing such useful information. animals are so precious and it is very difficult to experience losing them.

Kritter Keeper at Farm Tails said...

i really am sorry about your baby ralph! he was so beautiful! kudos to linda for sharing such useful information. animals are so precious and it is very difficult to experience losing them.

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BB said...

Oh dear... this is hard. The right decision though - the vet would've indicated if there was a good chance of him pulling through. Had to make this decision with the first (and only) horse I ever broke in... nearly killed me too:
http://bushbabe.blogspot.com/2008/09/eve.html
Hugs
BB

gtyyup said...

It's so hard to loose our special lil' friends...(((hugs)))